Sunday, January 8, 2012


Turns out, I don't have the ability to write what I'd like to say.
And so I am shooting from the hip on this one.
Here we are standing on the land my parents just purchased a few weeks ago.
It is in the beautiful Ozarks on Table Rock Lake.
Two lots down is Tom and Sylvia's cabin.
Sylvia is my mother's cousin, although that hardly describes the relationship.
They built their cabin over 13 years ago, and graciously, generously let our family use it.
I have so many fond memories here.
But our trip this weekend was more somber.
Tom passed very unexpectedly on New Years Day.
My Dad offered some remarks at the service.
There is a portion that I can't forget.
I can't stop thinking about how spot on this observation was.
Of Tom, he said:
"Even though you might have just met him, Tom had the unique ability to immediately put you at ease and make you feel comfortable. In the middle of the Iowa state fair, a basketball game, at an art exhibit, in a restaurant, at a business function, a family or social event, it didn't matter. He was just the kind of guy you wanted to be around. Tom could converse on any subject, and seemed always eager to find out more about a subject, about you, what your interests were and always able to, within time, funnel any conversation you were having with him to common ground. And before you knew it, you were unwittingly linked to Tom Rawlings forever."
It's true. It's true.
What a quality to possess.


Lora said...

Tara, I'm so sorry. He sounds like a truly amazing man!

Bailey Family said...

Was thinking about your family this weekend. Love you. I even have some memories at the cabin.

Missy said...

Oh Tara. I am so so sorry to read this news. Know that extra prayers are being said on your behalf and all your family.

That is one quality I only hope to possess someday. To make one feel at ease and though they have an immediate friend is priceless. So sorry for your loss.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Funerals/memorials for loved ones are so incredibly difficult but I find a strange comfort in the time you get to spend with family at those events. At my grandfather's funeral last year my entire family was together - something that had not happened in over 10 years. It was a wonderful memory and I know my grandfather was smiling down from heaven.

Christy said...

he sounds like an incredible man. i am so sorry for your loss, and so unexpected!

as a sidenote-- the land is beautiful.

Court and Britt said...

So sorry for your families loss! Loosing loved ones is soooo hard!!